Irked by the server who wants to take your plate away before you're finished eating? How about the person who orders and then changes his mind 10 minutes later, throwing off you and the kitchen? Or the fact that you have to ask for silverware after the food arrives?

There are two sides to every story, and so it is with the dining experience.

We're letting both players, the customers and the restaurant workers, air their biggest peeves with each other for an upcoming story. We'll sort them out to learn the top gripes on each side, so if you feel like venting, here's your chance to be heard.

E-mail your No. 1 irritation to food@postandcourier.com by Monday. Please be brief and to the point. No names will be used without permission.