Baby girl born aboard boat
By Emily Lane
The Post and Courier
Kat and Ben Okopnik's living room, dining room and bedroom of their sailboat became a birthing room for baby Alexandra on Tuesday. The family, including 23-month-old Michael, is living on the boat at the Maritime Center.
Many parents forgo the traditional hospital routine and give birth at home instead.
But newborn Alexandra Tomoe Okopnik made waves when she entered the world Tuesday morning in her new home: the S/V Ulysses, a 31-foot sailboat.
Parents Kat Tanaka Okopnik, 39, and Ben Okopnik, 47, have been traveling and living aboard the boat more than four years. And their 23-month-old son, Michael, can't get enough of his baby sister.
After weighing Alex in at 7 pounds and 7 ounces, foot-printing her and performing a post-natal examination, Nicole Lavallee, the Johns Island midwife Ben and Kat hired, stepped off the boat at the Charleston Maritime Center. She was curious how other boaters cruising the dock knew to ask her how the birth went.
She was told the yelling gave it away.
Despite the screaming, Kat said she was pleasantly surprised by the experience of having her baby aboard their home. Kat woke at 8 a.m. Tuesday with contractions, called up Lavallee and, after about four hours of labor, she was thrilled to meet her daughter at 12:17 p.m.
Ben said the people he's met in the Lowcountry have been overwhelmingly welcoming.
Hal and Cheryl Baker, a couple staying in a boat a few slips down, brought over a bottle of champagne to celebrate. Another woman they met tied pink balloons to their sailboat.
The Okopniks and their newly expanded family plan on staying in Charleston for about a month, then they plan to head to the Chesapeake Bay area.
But Ben said schedules do not really apply to life on a boat. Most decisions depend on the weather.
Michael already has a feel for the tiller when he gets in the dingy attached to their boat. He loves waving to fellow boaters from the bow.
To afford their wandering lifestyle, Ben edits the Linux Gazette, a technology publication, and teaches computer programming classes to companies across the country — which gives them cause for more traveling.
Kat, who's also tech-savvy, convinced her mother in Los Angeles to upgrade her cell phone so that she can send her pictures of her grandchildren.
The living area in the cabin where Kat lounges with her baby resembles a regular family room. Shelves filled with novels, children's books, stuffed animals and stereo speakers line the wall. A black strap secures the books and other items in case of rocky waves.
Although their lifestyle has its challenges, the thought of living on land doesn't cross the mind of either Kat or Ben. They hope their children's experience offers them the same sense freedom to live an unconventional life if they choose.
For now, the parents said they stick to a nautical slogan to determine their plans: "The time and tide rule our ride."
Comments
sardis12 (anonymous) says...
I wouldn't mind living on a boat. For about two minutes...
July 25, 2009 at 2:35 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
GAL2000 (anonymous) says...
sardis12...and the risk of having no pre-natal care for the unborn baby. Glad all went well!
July 25, 2009 at 4:57 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
gococks1985 (anonymous) says...
i don't recall the article saying she had no pre-natal care. here we go with the assumptions again.
July 25, 2009 at 7:07 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
shoelaces (anonymous) says...
She took her prenatal vitamins and visited the doctor. This was her second delivery. Had there been issues with the first labor and delivery, as a parent, I feel sure she would have taken precautions to ensure a safe birth.
Boating is a passion for many. In our previous life we had a cabin cruiser and spent many long weekends away with many other friends. We encountered plenty of folks who were live-aboards. Some with children and it was no big deal. As for living on a boat, I would need a really big boat!!
July 25, 2009 at 8:25 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
penny35 (anonymous) says...
GAL2000, what makes you think she had no prenatal care hmmmmm? Judgmental much?
July 25, 2009 at 10:28 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
CyndiJustMe (anonymous) says...
She was attended by a licensed midwife, who provides prenatal care AND ensures that all precautions are taken to ensure a safe birth. Given the induction and c-section rates, and the number of babies who end up in the special-care unit or NNICU as a direct result of these frequently unnecessary interventions, I'd say this mom made the safest possible choice for her birth.
July 25, 2009 at 1:16 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
SeaSaw (anonymous) says...
One good thing about living in a small space, she will not have to run far to keep up with her little ones. LOL....
July 25, 2009 at 1:18 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
rejectedsoul (anonymous) says...
all i care to say is congrats to the new parents
each baby is a beautiful blessing.
im sure they took all the needed precautions and the article said she had a midwife there for the delivery.
again congrats to the new parents what a cool birth story something she will love to hear all about when shes older
congrats again
July 25, 2009 at 4:01 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
shoelaces (anonymous) says...
I thihk I was edited...
July 25, 2009 at 10:58 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
Kidmaster6 (anonymous) says...
Congratulations to the new parents. PERIOD.
July 25, 2009 at 11:34 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
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