Kindness of strangers helps family who lost home
The Post and Courier
Vicki Stone stands outside her new mobile home with her two children, Raven Sanders and Bernard Stone. Her previous mobile home burned, forcing the family to live in a motel.
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Mother who lost home now has nowhere to go, published 09/27/08
Vicki Stone, a single mother who was burned out of her North Charleston mobile home with her two children last month, is back in another one, complete with furniture, thanks to people who knew nothing about her other than her trouble.
She's not out of the woods yet, but is on her way.
"I'm grateful," she said this week, sitting in her living room on a donated coach. "I'm still kind of speechless. I didn't think people helped out anybody anymore. It makes me look at things a lot different."
The Post and Courier ran a story saying the Red Cross had put her family up in a motel for three days after the fire and she didn't know where to go next. At least half a dozen people called asking how they could help.
Some callers wanted to know how they could be sure she wouldn't waste money on accommodations. There was no way to tell them one way or another. A few simply went to the motel's front desk and paid her bill.
Stone ended up staying in the motel for 10 days, thanks to the kindness of strangers. Now she's living in a weatherbeaten mobile home on a dirt road just west of Park Circle.
She's paying $400 a month. The landlord told her he was lowering the rent from $700 because of her situation.
The front yard is bare brown dirt. A big tan dog stretches the chain from his doghouse to sniff visitors. Inside, the furniture is worn but clean and comfortable. The picture on the television is clear and sharp.
Community effort
Stone mentions some of the people who helped her. When she was at the motel, a "Miss Jamison" from Rural Ministries Baptist Church in North Charleston called to say she had collected $300 to help pay a deposit on a place to live. A "Miss Elizabeth" with Bethany United Methodist Church in Summerville called to say her Sunday school had collected sheets and blankets.
But Stone's biggest benefactor has been Nancy Elliott, a Mount Pleasant real-estate agent who more or less adopted her.
Elliott called Stone at the motel the day after she read the story. After meeting her, she decided to recruit her co-workers at Coldwell Banker United Realtors.
"Can you imagine how lost this mother must feel," Elliott wrote in an e-mail. "How these two children must feel? ... If we can all just put ourselves in this poor young lady's shoes for just a few minutes."
Elliott used to work for a nonprofit agency, and she wasn't exactly overwhelmed with work selling houses lately. She got a corporation that wants to remain anonymous to donate $500. Coldwell Banker United Charleston General Manager Gettys Glaze kicked in $200, and Senior Vice President Edmund Monteith gave $150.
Agents at the Mount Pleasant, Summerville and West Ashley offices donated money and furniture. Elliott gives special credit to Linda Hill in the Mount Pleasant office, who spent hours helping Stone move.
Starting over
An inspector blamed the Sept. 24 fire on faulty wiring in a bedroom air-conditioner. Stone had been living there three months with her two children, 11-year-old Raven Sanders and 12-year-old Bernard Stone. They lost everything, including her grandmother's jewelry and the flag that draped her Army veteran father's coffin.
"I worked really hard to get to the point where I was," she said. "I just finished paying off the kitchen table. I've pretty much started all over."
Stone, 33, was raised by her grandmother, who died in 2000. She got married when she was 16 and was divorced at 18. Her children are from another relationship that ended eight years ago.
Stone lost her job at McDonald's after the fire. She said she was stressed out and missed too many days. Once she got into her new place, she took the story about her situation to a manager of another restaurant, which she prefers not to name. The manager read it and hired her on the spot, she said. She bought her uniform the other day and is optimistic she will be worked into the rotation soon.
When asked where she sees herself in a couple years, she said "back in school. I want to work with old people."
Reach Dave Munday at 745-5862 or dmunday@postandcourier.com.

Comments
back2u (anonymous) says...
Oh how touching. Believe it or not, there are still good people out there willing and wanting to give a helping hand up. My Granddaddy always said helping others is one of the main reasons why we're here. I'm sure later posters, true to themselves, will whine about something to do with this mother -- irresponsibility, marriage/kids at young age, etc, etc, etc. As IF you never in your life made some bad choices and had to suffer the consequences. Get over it and use your knowledge (which some believe is what they have the most of) and help others with a boost up - not a hand out.
October 18, 2008 at 2:05 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
disco (anonymous) says...
What a great story to read this morning. Vicki, good luck to you and your family.
October 18, 2008 at 8:41 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
wonderdog (anonymous) says...
Well said, back2u. This lady is going to make it - she has what it takes.
October 18, 2008 at 9:37 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
IronWoman (anonymous) says...
I missed this story when it was posted, but I was wondering what caused the fire? Hopefully her new residence has been thoroughly inspected for any possible fire hazards. She sounds like a wonderful person, who deserves better than life is handing her. I hope and pray for a bright future for her. Also, she is setting a wonderful example for her children to follow. To stand strong in the face of adversity, and stick together as a family. It's heartwarmnig to know we have people like those who have reached out to help her through this devastating ordeal.
October 18, 2008 at 11:15 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
sailaway (anonymous) says...
IronWoman, apparently it was wiring in a bedroom air conditioner according to the original story -- click on the link in the story above and you can read the original. I'm happy things are improving for this family, too.
October 18, 2008 at 12:04 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
spankerbums (anonymous) says...
I bet if that was a black woman ya'll wouldnt help her. Stupid azz white people won't helps me because I'm black and gay. Screw all yo crakas.
October 18, 2008 at 4:23 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
vikistone33 (anonymous) says...
HI EVERYONE THIS IS VICKI STONE THE SINGLE MOTHER WITH TWO KIDS FROM THE PICTURE ABOVE.I JUST WANT TO ADD A FEW THINGS THAT WAS LEFT OUT.FIRST OFF THE CHURCH IN SUMMERVILLE HELPED MORE THEN WHAT WAS SAID.THEY BROUGHT 2 TV'S MONEY A TABLE AND ALOT OF OTHER THINGS.SOMEOF THE THINGS THAT WERE SAID WERE UNTRUE FIRST OFF MY MOTHER RAISED ME ALL MY FAMILY LEFT CHARLESTON AFTER SHE PASSED AWAY IN 2000.YES I DID GET MARRIED WHEN I WAS 16 AND I LEFT WHEN NOT TOO LONG AFTER TURNING 18.AND TO THE PERSON THAT SAID IF I WAS A BLACK WOMEN THAT NO ONE WOULD HELP NO ONE THAT READ THE FIRST STORY NEW IF I WAS WHITE OR BLACK IF YOU LOOK AT THE PICTURE MY CHILDREN ARE HALF BLACK AND MY CHILDRENS FATHER IS SOMEWHERE IN CHARLESTON BUT I LEFT HIM ALONG TIME AGO I TAKE CARE OF MY KIDS IF ITS WORKING IN A FAST FOOD PLACE OR WAL-MART OR PICKING UP TRASH ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD I DON'T ASK FOR HELP BUT RIGHT NOW I DO NEED SOME.AND PEOPLE LIKE YOU THAT HAVE TO PUT RAE INTO PEOPLE DOING KIDTHINGS FROM THERE HEART MAKES YOU SOUND DUMB.BUT TO EVERYONE THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP.ANYONE THAT WOULD LIKE TO GET IN TOUCH WITH ME MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS ......vikistone33@yahoo.com thanks for reading
October 19, 2008 at 1:06 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
cracker_jack (anonymous) says...
Just ignore idiots like spankerbuns, Ms. Vicki. He hates all whites. I wish you the best of luck getting back on your feet.
October 19, 2008 at 9:53 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
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