Posted by geekguy2008 on May 13, 2008 at 2:46 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Don't he look like da cool mac daddy wit da smack down on da shades...werd.

Posted by truthaboutcrime on May 13, 2008 at 4:27 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Im sure his priors for dealing drugs had nothing to do with this

Posted by moonpie on May 13, 2008 at 6:10 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I'm shocked...not!

Posted by abitskeptical on May 13, 2008 at 6:22 a.m. (Suggest removal)

There is a look that people can get that says "I'm bad & I'm mad".

White, black, Hispanic...I've seen it on the spectrum of humanity's faces. All too often I have seen this in the casual shots provided of a suspect, as well as victims who were involved in the high risk activity that involved an assault.

I wonder if these are the only types of photos the family has to provide?

Posted by wpc3iop on May 13, 2008 at 7:47 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Drug deal? Say it ain't so! The last one...

Posted by Chief_SittingBull on May 13, 2008 at 8:08 a.m. (Suggest removal)

My heart goes out to the family of this individual for their loss.

Abitskep: You raise a very valid point and I share your sentiments. It seems as though the most positive image of the deceased should be shared with the public since it is quite a natural tendency to first judge on appearances. If there is no image available that positively supports the “character” of the individual, do not use a photo.

Posted by donjohn on May 13, 2008 at 8:17 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I really wish you pathetic clowns would stop being so judgemental to people and situations you know nothing about. You dont know him. You didnt know him. There are those of us who did that get on this website just like you all do and its hurting me to see my lifelong friend in such a bad situation like this one. He didnt deserve what happened. And I wish you people on the internet who never have to worry about this type of violence would take that into account when you make reckless rash remarks about other people when you have no idea the type of person he was or how his murder is affecting those who knew him.

Posted by ColdBeer on May 13, 2008 at 9:02 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Not related to this article, but it made me think...

Is it possible, without paying a fee, to do a criminals records search on a name at the local authority websites? If so, can someone tell me how?

Posted by RTC on May 13, 2008 at 9:08 a.m. (Suggest removal)

ColdBeer, do you mean other than the Charleston County site?
Not sure exactly what you are asking.
The only site I know is: www.charlestoncounty.org.

Posted by ColdBeer on May 13, 2008 at 9:15 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I've seen people on here comment about a person's rap sheet when the details were not covered in the article, so I am assuming they are getting the information some how.

Posted by carolinagal on May 13, 2008 at 10:02 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Sure he was a good guy- he looks like a thug and you know what they say....you lay with dogs, you get fleas. See the only thing I can figure it that the family who provided this kind of picture are also thugs and think he looks cool.

Posted by ColdBeer on May 13, 2008 at 10:21 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Wow... Jesse Purple Meyers has quite the extensive arrest background. Mostly drug arrest. Possession with intent to distribute... sometimes around schools. Unlawful possession of a firearm. Spanning 5 years. Wonder if this is the same guy?

Posted by ColdBeer on May 13, 2008 at 10:23 a.m. (Suggest removal)

BTW, Thanks RTC and TP.

Posted by ColdBeer on May 13, 2008 at 10:31 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Well what do you know... it is the same guy. DonJon, we are all better off without your life long friend on the streets. Sounds like the reason he had to "worry about this type of violence", as you put it, was that he was part of the problem.

DonJon, ever heard the term "Open mouth, insert foot"?

Posted by suec on May 13, 2008 at 10:36 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Why do the police waste their time trying to find who killed him?
I think whoever it was, did society and favor. One less thug on the streets.

Posted by ColdBeer on May 13, 2008 at 10:58 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Thanks barefootchicken. I just checked myself out. No bad news yet :)

Posted by Girleygirl on May 13, 2008 at 11:16 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Ditto what Allwoman said!

Posted by ColdBeer on May 13, 2008 at 11:24 a.m. (Suggest removal)

LOL allwoman

Posted by Early on May 13, 2008 at 12:15 p.m. (Suggest removal)

The only time a person deserves to die is when he/ she pushes on kids, then I have a problem. Grew up with a song that I believe was Grand Funk Railroad, not sure called
G-- Damned the pusher man!

Posted by Charles_Town on May 13, 2008 at 12:31 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Never ceases to amaze me how people still say someone was a good person when they have a record like this. I know some people, I just do not talk about since I can not think of anything nice to say about them.

Posted by abitskeptical on May 13, 2008 at 12:40 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Uh, Early...that would be Steppenwolf..

"But the pusher don't care
Ah, if you live or if you die

God damn, The Pusher
God damn, I say The Pusher
I said God damn, God damn The Pusher man"

Posted by Early on May 13, 2008 at 1:34 p.m. (Suggest removal)

allwoman, my saying is "shaking like a dog shyting prune seeds":)

Posted by confederatethornman on May 13, 2008 at 2:17 p.m. (Suggest removal)

That lowlife got just what God intended for his kind.

Posted by deon_staley on May 13, 2008 at 3 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I THINK THAT YOU HAD ONE TOO MANY OF YOUR OWN NAME(COLD BEER)IT SADDENS ME TO KNOW THAT SOME PEOPLE ARE SO CRUEL &
JUDGEMENTAL, HE WAS SOMEONE'S CHILD, LOVED ONE & FRIEND!
MAYBE YOU SHOULD TAKE SOME OF YOUR INTERNET TIME TO RESEARCH
FAMILY VALUES OR MAYBE YOU SHOULD EVEN GET A LIFE! YOU INTERNET STALKER!!!( THAT IS A FELONY, YOU KNOW? LOOK IT UP!!

Posted by grannyofsix on May 13, 2008 at 3:32 p.m. (Suggest removal)

is that why every where i go on these forums i see him. he is stalking us? OH wait a minute does that mean allwomen , earley and wallytowngrl and me are all stalkers too?

Posted by suec on May 13, 2008 at 3:37 p.m. (Suggest removal)

deon, jeffery dahmer was also someone's child. Everyone is someone's child, sibling or friend. It doesn't make them a good person.

Posted by LowcountryMoose on May 13, 2008 at 4 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Deon,

It looks like it's been a few years since you've been prosecuted for credit card fraud. Moved on to something else?

Posted by Girleygirl on May 13, 2008 at 4:14 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Internet stalker? Coldbeer?

Lol@ Allwoman for that Scooby Doo line.

Posted by SHAWN on May 13, 2008 at 4:20 p.m. (Suggest removal)

WELL THIS GOES OUT TO ALL THE HATERS AND INGNORANT @$#$^$&**
WHO RESPONDED WITH SUCH HATEFUL AND CRUEL WORDS SUCH AS SUEC, COLDBEER AND ESPACIALLY CONFERERATETHEORNMAN!! REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU DO OR HOW YOU LIVED NO ONE CAN JUDGE YOU BUT GOD AND YOU ALL SOUND VERY IMATURE. THE SITUATION REALLY COULD HAVE BEEN DIFFRENT AND THAT COULD HAVE BEEN ONE OF YOU OR YOUR KIND IN THAT HOUSE THAT NIGHT AND HONESTLY I KIND OF WISH IT WAS BECAUSE WITH THE KNIDS OF THOUGHTS AND MORALES THAT YOU HAVE YOU REALLY DON'T NEED TO BE ON THIS EARTH IM PRETTY SURE IT IS A VERY HOT SPOT IN HELL FOR YOU AND PERSONALLY I CAN'T WAIT FOR YOU TO GET THEIR. PEOPLE LIKE YOU DISGUSE ME. HOW COULD YOU HONESTLY SAY IT IS A GOOD THING THAT SOMEONE IS DEAD AND WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE WHEN YOUR ASS IS PROBABLY THE CHILD MOLESTER, BTK, OR JEFFRY DAHMER OF THE NEIGBORHOOD BUT JUST HAVEN'T BEEN REVELED YET. IM PRETTY SURE YOUR LAZY BUTT HAS SOME SKELETONS IN YOUR CLOSET HELL THE HINDGES IS PROBABLY ABOUT TO FALL OFF. IT SEEMS TO ME ALL YOU'LL DO IS SIT HOME AND STALK THE INTERNET B LET ME GET YOUR HARDDRIVE AND RUN A CHECK ON THAT AND LETS SEE WHAT WE WILL FIND. SEE YOUR KIND IS SNEAKY YOU'LL LIKE TO THROW THE ROCK AND HIDE YOUR HAND AND HIDE BEHIND CODE NAMES LIKE "COLDBEER" WELL YOU NEED TO BE A DEAD DUCK SAYING CRAZY STUFF LIKE THAT!! YOUR KIND CONFEDERATETHEORNMAN MAKES ME WANT TO VOMIT BECAUSE APPERENTLY YOU ARE STUCK BACK IN THE DAYS WHEN WE REALLY GAVE A DAMN ABOUT YOU AND YOUR KIND FOR ALL I CARE YOU CAN TAKE THAT CONFEREATE FLAG AND STICK IT WHERE THE SUN DON'T SHINE. YOUR STUPID CRAZY BUTT. THIS IS 2008 STOP ALL THIS CRAZY TALK AND HATERED AND BE CIVILIZED AND HELP THE COMMUNITY INSTEAD OF ALL THE BASHING AND NEGATIVITY.REALLY PLEASE BE AN ADULT ABOUT THIS SITUATION AND BE CONSIDERATE OF THE FAMILY OF THE VICTIME IF YOU DON'T AGREE WITH WHAT THE VICTIME DID.OH AND "COLDBEER" YOU SOUND LIKE A "HOTBEER"TO ME WHATS THE MATTER LITTLE BOY DID ONE OF THOSE THUGS GET A HOLD OF YOUR LITTLE SISTER OR PERHAPS YOUR MOTHER WELL GUESS WHAT GET OVER IT IS WHAT IT IS .SO MAYBE YOU NEED TO HAVE A TALK WITH YOUR PEOPLE AND LEAVE OURS ALONE. NOW HOW YOU LIKE THEM APPLES BOY. HOW DOES THAT MAKE YOU FEEL.

Posted by grannyofsix on May 13, 2008 at 4:25 p.m. (Suggest removal)

WOW who pissed in his cornflakes

Posted by whycantitbebetterhere on May 13, 2008 at 4:39 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I think that it is time for the eliteist snobs that post on here realize that they aren't the only people who have computers and can read. There are lots and lots of people in the world that have a naer-do-well (or someone who made mistakes) in the family, and I am sure you would be mortified if you met this young man's family and they knew what you said. You are not alone in here - old white men, and many of the people you say nasty things about wouldn't like it if they met you. How about you act in here, as if you would act in public? I, for one, am sick of reading all of the ignorant comments. I already know that I live in an ignorant place, but I guess I try to forget that there are people around here that are that stupid.

Posted by whycantitbebetterhere on May 13, 2008 at 4:43 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Oh by the way - we know he is from North Charleston, but he gets shot in an apartment in Charleston, and they don't even report whose apartment he was shot in. How can he be from N. Chas. if that is his apartment? or why don't they say whose apartment it is? Terrible reporting.

Posted by Girleygirl on May 13, 2008 at 4:44 p.m. (Suggest removal)

lol@ Granny!!!

I like Coldbeer he is upfront and consistent with everything he has posted. You do a crime he wants you to go to jail or the death penalty. He has never said anything racist on this board (IMO). He is very upfront and I noticed some posters can't handle it. He has the same attitude for all criminals though. He can't stand them!!

AS far as the confederate guy goes he more than likely has seven screen names and has been posting on the PC since the PC allowed people to post. More than likely he is a little troll looking for attention. Ignore him he can't help it. He did not get enough of his mammy titty as a child and need that extra attention. :>)

Posted by forget on May 13, 2008 at 4:51 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Has anyone noticed that the ones that use the saying "don't judge me" or "you can't judge someone" has usually spent some time in front of a judge? I didn't notice any hateful or cruel words. Just real observations. There's no way that could have been me, as Shawn has said, because I don't live that lifestyle. If you want to live like a "gangsta" you just might die like one. I

Posted by forget on May 13, 2008 at 4:54 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Coldbeer REALLY sent that one over the edge. Impressive!

Posted by Girleygirl on May 13, 2008 at 4:58 p.m. (Suggest removal)

The sad part about it Forget- He was trying to find out how to look up a rapsheet, was educated, shared his education with everyone, then shared his opinion and was blasted!

Lol@ Coldbeer- this is not the first one that was upset with you and this won't be the last but you're a good guy.

Posted by forget on May 13, 2008 at 5:04 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Donjohn and Shawn only posted once each. Now they could have been fun. Maybe that's all the computer time they allowed them in the pen?

Posted by Girleygirl on May 13, 2008 at 5:08 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I guess his question was answered. Yes Coldbeer its the same guy!

Posted by ColdBeer on May 13, 2008 at 5:36 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I'm not sure how I can say this any more clearly. I have a wife and kids that I love and care for VERY much. I have a mom, dad, brother, sister and a whole bunch of in-laws (they are from Tennessee... man they have BIG families up there!) and I love them all very much too. I great everyone I meet with a smile and treat them as an equal. I have tons of friends and I really enjoy life. I am not a “hater”.

When it comes to criminals though, I have no patience and I see no need for them on this Earth. Why should I work hard, bust my butt to provide for my family (and millions of other families that require tax payer assistance to survive) so that some low life criminal can take what I have earned away from me? Why do I have to start each day hoping that some one I care for won’t come in contact with a dirt bag that wants to take the easy way out? As suec pointed out, everyone has a mom and a dad. Instead of bashing on me for saying something that might upset a dir bags mom or dad, maybe you should direct your anger at the dirt bag for being such a disappointment to his mom and dad.

As I said earlier, we’re better off without this guy running around in society. I believe that 100%. I’m sure his loved ones are saddened by the loss, and I offer my condolences to them, but the loss is his fault, not mine.

This particular man spent at least 5 years selling drugs, carrying a stolen weapon and getting caught... over and over again.

A stalker? Me? No… I’m already married to the only person I know worth devoting that much time and effort too.

I’m sorry you lost a friend and you are hurting. The bottom line though is that the world is now a safer place. His actions make this a fact, not my words.

Posted by ColdBeer on May 13, 2008 at 5:40 p.m. (Suggest removal)

LowCountryMoose, you reply to Deon was classic <lol>.

Posted by RTC on May 13, 2008 at 5:47 p.m. (Suggest removal)

The hell with the screaming banshees on here, I want to know how Girleygirl's date went. :)

Posted by forget on May 13, 2008 at 5:49 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Doug Huffman disappeared. We haven't heard from him in, what?, 2 months?

Posted by forget on May 13, 2008 at 5:50 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Oh yeah, Girly, do kiss and tell....

Posted by RTC on May 13, 2008 at 6 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Stop with the hesitation, girl, we are all trembling with anticipation here you know.
Spit it out. Oops.... that didn't sound very nice. LOL

Posted by RTC on May 13, 2008 at 7:32 p.m. (Suggest removal)

allwoman, I owe you an apology, and I think you are probably mad at me.
My comment about that college grad was not meant to be critical of all girls that get pregnant while in school. It happens. I was trying to get across the point that I thought there was a better grad to write about than her. I know that there was a student who was battling cancer their whole 4 yrs. at C of C. I guess I did a very poor job of expressing myself.
You know that I love posting with you, and if I hurt your feelings I am so very sorry.

Posted by eyfigueroa on May 13, 2008 at 9:41 p.m. (Suggest removal)

okay, how did a simple article about a dead criminal become a circus?

i gotta start paying more attention to the seemingly mundane stories.

girleygirl? where are you? if you went on a date you must spill the beans. some of us, especially me, must live vicariously through you...

Posted by RTC on May 13, 2008 at 9:42 p.m. (Suggest removal)

allwoman, you are definitely a gracious lady. You always make people feel good.
I never knew about your past, but I respect you for keeping your head up and making a good life for yourself and your family. They are blessed to have you.

Posted by SHAWN on May 13, 2008 at 10:05 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Well "Forget" not in the pen just have better things to do (like work) than to play internet tennis match.With you scum bags. Get a life you!!

Posted by SHAWN on May 13, 2008 at 10:12 p.m. (Suggest removal)

OK(Mr.Micheal Moore) If you really want to know the life of a Thug take your curious ass on the block and lets see how long you last Buddy!!!!

Posted by SHAWN on May 13, 2008 at 10:16 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Oh and before you go on the "block" don't forget the web cam so we can use that for you documentry "Curiousity killed the Beer)lol....

Posted by SHAWN on May 13, 2008 at 10:23 p.m. (Suggest removal)

OK,OK!!!! Wow ol'beer oop!I mean Cold beer. Damn it must be contagious I think you must have sent me a virus over the computer called Stalking cause im statring to act just like you. You must be my brother from another Mother.ALL HAILS THE BEER!!!!

Posted by RTC on May 13, 2008 at 10:46 p.m. (Suggest removal)

allwoman, you are so correct. We are all individuals, and most importantly we are all human beings. At least most of us are.
I tell you there are some strange people on this board tonight. Just talking away to themselves I guess.
I will say a special prayer for them all.

Posted by CNN_10 on May 13, 2008 at 11:15 p.m. (Suggest removal)

It is sad that this young man died. However, when you have done dirty in your past it will catch up to you. As for Coldbeer i may not agree with everything he said, but he does speak his mind. Or he sugarcoated it respect him for that.

Posted by CNN_10 on May 13, 2008 at 11:16 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I meant to say was not sugarcoated it sorry guys

Posted by Girleygirl on May 14, 2008 at 8:25 a.m. (Suggest removal)

My date was ... He was cute and all but his cell phone just kept ringing and ringing and I could tell he was talking in code so he is back in the river. I felt like I was on a date with the secret service the way he kept answering and talking on his phone and I just got a bad vibe about it. He will not work out. I don't feel like being the silly rabbit, tricks are for kids! I made it back home at 10:30 on a Friday night because I was not thrilled with my date. Called my girlfriend to see if she wanted to check out "Club Kush" and I saw my date at that club with another woman. :>) God works in mysterious ways!!! He was telling me to stay away from this man and now I know why I did not go on a date with him right away. WHY DO MEN FEEL LIKE THEY NEED TO DATE EVERY SINGLE WOMEN THEY RUN ACROSS OR MEET????

Posted by ColdBeer on May 14, 2008 at 9:49 a.m. (Suggest removal)

"back in the river"... classic <lol>.

When I was single, I tried to date every woman I met. Well, "date" may not be the correct word. Regardless, the woman always had my attention, not a cell phone, TV or my buddies. The vast majority of the dates didn't work out, but I did end up finding the woman that I'll spend the rest of my life with, so I think my "method" worked out great. Sometimes you go through a lot of fish before you find the keeper and the catch and release can be a lot of fun too :)

I guess I should clarify that cell phones weren't even being used when I was "dating"... I'm getting so fricken old!

Posted by deon_staley on May 14, 2008 at 9:51 a.m. (Suggest removal)

WELL,Well Mr.( Magnum P.I )Himself a.k.a (Cold Beer)
Have you ever consider changing your profession? not a bad
thought, right? How about you & Mr. David Duke(Confederate)
get together & start a new orginization for your kind, your wife will never know the diffrence((smile)) I am. be careful on what you ask for & do you really think in a million years i would have given your stalking ##** my real goverment!What you talking bout Cold Beer"(Diffrent Strokes)lol!!! I'll try not to rub you the wrong way, cause we all know what happens to a beer after it's shooken up!!! LOL!!

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 9:54 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Girly - usually your first instincts are correct. So, you got your feet wet, now time for the next step. I tell the young girls that work for me, there are plenty of fish out there. Just toss your line back into the pond.

Posted by deon_staley on May 14, 2008 at 9:55 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Cold beer? or Dr. Phil? I must be on the wrong page,sorry!

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 9:56 a.m. (Suggest removal)

At least with CB you know what he's talking about.

Posted by Girleygirl on May 14, 2008 at 10:17 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Deon are you stalking Coldbeer? What is the deal? What did he do to offend you so bad? Do you have a radar on him? You can tell me what's wrong?

Thanks Forget I am so picky with men so I know I will find my dream guy......I might need to get out of Charleston because the majority of the men here are married, dating someone, living with the baby mama, living with their parents, in jail, or just plain ugly. :>)

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 10:23 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Girly - imagine, finding a guy with a JOB. Now there's prince charming.

Posted by ColdBeer on May 14, 2008 at 10:24 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Is Deon still here? I put all of those goof balls on Ignore. Can't see their posts anymore :)

Posted by SHAWN on May 14, 2008 at 10:27 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Well Deon I see we are just too much for them.They can't handle a real battle. They are more interested in that girls date. Man, this was just getting good. Come on bring the noise!!!!

Posted by SHAWN on May 14, 2008 at 10:30 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Ok, Girleygirl!! Don't start. You can't handle the truth.I know what you did last night!!

Posted by deon_staley on May 14, 2008 at 10:38 a.m. (Suggest removal)

it's not my fault you got,NEXT!! I hope you find the Woman, oops i mean man of your dreams one day, but until then cry me a river! Yes CB, still here! Are you still married?

Posted by deon_staley on May 14, 2008 at 10:44 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Not So Girleygirl,Delta has a special! if you want to move let the door knob hit ya!! PEACE OUT! Maybe the pilot will be single.LOL

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 10:46 a.m. (Suggest removal)

We're talking about Girley's date now because we've discussed the other subject plenty enough. But we will gladly discuss this subject AGAIN with the two of you if you can participate intelligently. That means, no street slang, profanity, name calling, and please try to spell a little better, you're sometimes hard to understand.

Posted by tammirenae on May 14, 2008 at 10:48 a.m. (Suggest removal)

i have too say that the majority of the comments were very imconsiderate to the mother.. no matter what kind of record that man had he was someones son. and maybe, just maybe he wasnt a bad person.. just made bad choices... i have a son who turned 19 yesterday. and has been struggling with drugs for a few years now. he has stolen from everyone around him including my father and that not only angers me it disgusts me..i cannot be around my own child because i dont condone the beavior and dont want to see him that way. he just got out of jail 2 weeks ago and had been in since aug 07. he got 2 5 year sentences suspended to 48 months probation, 96 hours community srevice and restitution... he did alot of bad things.. but i remember when he was fun 13 year old riding the go karts at dollywood or seeing his face the first time he saw the ocean.. that is my baby... and i love him. i hate what he does, i hate what he has become but my child nor anyone elses child deserves to die. every time i see a shooting on the news i hold my breath, paying its not my son. please take into consideration, that his mom or dad or grandma..who cant control or change how he lived but still loved him might log in to read..and such words of hate and anger and prejudice might pushthem over the edge.. might hurt them more than they are already hurting..
i understand 'live in the streets die in the streets" but it is never too late..until this happens and then it is too late.
i am proof you can change. i was that scum...useless in the street in jacksonville, i have been shot and stabbed.. and thankflly i didnt die.. and i woke up in time. yesterday i celebrated 13 years drug free and i now have a college education and live on the island in a nice home and a great job.so dont give up on people.. hope is all we have..
and quit being so picky about spelling people! lol

Posted by deon_staley on May 14, 2008 at 10:51 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I forgot your name? oops my bad!Who are you, the spokesperson? go play in trafic!!

Posted by Girleygirl on May 14, 2008 at 11:03 a.m. (Suggest removal)

I noticed Shawn and this other guy is posting because they are in study hall and the teacher just walked out of the classroom. So they don't have much to do. They can't even say what the real problem is so that tells me they are here just to get a rise out of people. So I may have to do the same thing and put them on ignore. Especially if you talk to different people all the time on these blogs so some people become personally with one another but you will always have the clowns that can't help it!

Tammie- I have bad apples in my family too and thats what we were talking about at first. I do feel sorry for you because it seems like you tried, but all you can do now is advise and provide tough love. Nobody deserves to die unless you are an inmate on death row.

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 11:10 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Sometimes people have to want to help themselves. This "thug" lifestyle is glorified in music, movies, video games, music videos, etc. They try to live this life, problem is, the life expectancy of someone in this "profession" isn't very old.

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 11:20 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Everyone has a (or some) family members that go the other way. They are no reflection on the others in the family. Like Girly said, all you can do is give advice, when they get a certain age, they make their own decisions-good or bad. When they make the bad ones, they're going to have to pay the consequences. Maybe after they "pay their debt to society" a time or two, they realize that the costs are way too high.

Posted by deon_staley on May 14, 2008 at 11:25 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Girleygirl,you're still here? Darn!!Well my mother told me that they were only two kinds of people in this world, those who say & those who do! I already figured which one you are.Wish you luck on Elimidate!!lol

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 11:43 a.m. (Suggest removal)

Both my parents are alcoholics. My father died from it about 10 yrs ago. My mother will, too, one day. It's inevitable. I can't make her stop, and as an adult I don't need therapy to know as a child I couldn't do anything about it. I just know to have a relationship with her I know the times of day when she is least likely to be drunk and talk with her then. After all, she is the only mother I will ever have.

Posted by Girleygirl on May 14, 2008 at 12:03 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Trust me I don't feel bad. His odd behavior messed him up. I know exactly what you are talking about Allwoman and I had to go through that (telephone calls) with my ex husband ,and numerous other reasons, I don't want to be the other woman, the main woman, or the sidekick. LOL.
Forget- I could not help but to feel sad when I read your last post, but I'm happy to see that you are a well bodied adult and you don't have any grudges towards your mother.

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 12:31 p.m. (Suggest removal)

I went through the phone thing with my ex-husband also. A note to add to the checklist of what to look for if your husband has a waitress at the Dog and Duck he has become fond of - A second cell phone shows up that you don't have the number of and of which the bill doesn't come to the house. And always went outside at the end of the driveway to talk on it.
Girly- what can you do but play the hand you're dealt. My 11 yr old daughter has never even seen granny when she's had too much. Timing is everything! Life's too short to hold grudges, that wears me out.

Posted by walleyedwoman1215 on May 14, 2008 at 12:40 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Girleygirl, always walk like a queen and remember... You are a PRIZE that only the most deserving man will win!

Posted by deon_staley on May 14, 2008 at 2:12 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Allwoman, didn't you say you were divorce? it explains!

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 2:16 p.m. (Suggest removal)

allwoman - conversation requires two people. You can't understand anything that either of them are talking about!

Posted by deon_staley on May 14, 2008 at 2:19 p.m. (Suggest removal)

It also takes two to tangle,you lonely losers!

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 2:33 p.m. (Suggest removal)

deon - the saying is "it takes two to tango". But like I said.....

Posted by deon_staley on May 14, 2008 at 2:34 p.m. (Suggest removal)

No marriage requires two people!

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 2:44 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Wow, allwoman, You sure are far from being lonely! What are the age ranges? I bet you have non-stop activity in your house.

Posted by SHAWN on May 14, 2008 at 2:49 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Well lonely Girleygirl. Perhaps if you start hanging out at an adult club instead of The Kush Lounge with those infants maybe just maybe you will find a decent M.A.N.!! Would you like me to get you tickets to go on the Dr.Phil show you sad pound puppy.

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 2:57 p.m. (Suggest removal)

You don't find "men" at a club. Men aren't there. They are working, paying for and taking care of homes, getting up and going to work (not working thru a hangover). So therefore, you won't find many worthwhile men in clubs. You may go to the clubs to social with friends, but you find a worthwhile mate other places (most of the time).
Girly doesn't sound sad to me, she sounds like a girl that knows what she wants and won't settle for less. And she shouldn't. A girl has got to kiss alot of frogs before she finds her prince.

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 3 p.m. (Suggest removal)

And you work with 6 kids (and one on the way)? I bow to you.

Posted by deon_staley on May 14, 2008 at 3:04 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Allwoman, did you say 6 the # after 5 & before 7 ?
Are you the real Disheeke( Don't be a Menance)
you should be potty trainig, ooh by the way, the "d" that i so called left out,Use it for more DIAPERS!LOL
Where is your Husband? I hope that you have a gym membership!

Posted by SHAWN on May 14, 2008 at 3:12 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Forget- The sentence should go "You may go to a club to socialize with friends,".... Well it seems like she has kissed a lot of frogs in her day hope she has some breath mints...lol And how many baby daddy's do you have??

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 3:24 p.m. (Suggest removal)

No, clubs is plural, meaning more than one. Which is the way I wanted it written. And I don't have any "baby daddys" the father of my child is termed husband. "Kissing alot of frogs" is an old saying, you quite probably have never heard it. Quite like the old saying "you have the right to remain silent" which you more than likely HAVE heard!

Posted by Girleygirl on May 14, 2008 at 3:25 p.m. (Suggest removal)

You all notice when they post crap? School is out so mommy's at work while they suppose to be using the internet for homework. You won't see them post from 530-9 pm because mom will be home , but as soon as she goes to sleep they posting crap. It's funny and sad at the same time because they don't know how to comprehend what they are reading. My gosh if they are in Berkley county I sware I am going to send a letter to all of the H.S in that county because they are not doing a good job. I bet they are 19 and in the 9th grade.
I never said I was trying to find a man in the club so PACT reviewing is not working for you two. SAD SAD SAD. You can remember the name off of a movie but can't recollect what was just written.....

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 3:31 p.m. (Suggest removal)

allwoman, deon can count, he's counting the days he has left on probation. Pretty sure that's the same Deon Staley on the Chas. site. I mean, how many can there be?
How far along are you, allwoman? With you kids, and then add in friends, etc. you must have 12+ kids in your house most of the time!

Posted by SHAWN on May 14, 2008 at 3:36 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Allowomen it is "learned"
Are you sure your husband is at work making Duckies or in the street making more babies. you need to get with coldbeer and have him checked out.
Hey Deon I really think you hit a nerve.
You silly girl we have been posting all day. I am actually in college but not going this summer semester and I do have a job but was off today so I had sometime time to play with you crazy people...

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 3:40 p.m. (Suggest removal)

They're 19 in the 9th grade because "the teachas they be hatin" on me". I have a friend that teaches middle school, that's a term she heard from a parent last week. The PARENT came in and said her son said he got suspended because "she be hatin' on him". Parent was serious.

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 3:45 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Hey, you always know where your kids (and everyone else's) are at. I only have one, but there's always 4 or 5 more at my house every weekend. We've recently taken up baseball (she plays on a boys team) so that means we've expanded our group of friends by 10 more. So that means, more phone calls, kids stopping by, etc.. Not to mention snacks and drinks that are needed!

Posted by Girleygirl on May 14, 2008 at 3:48 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Lol @ Teachers hatin' on me. I can't believe a parent would actually say that to a teacher!

Posted by ColdBeer on May 14, 2008 at 3:48 p.m. (Suggest removal)

The bottom line here is that everyone is making jokes with, or about everyone else. That means a lot of smiles.

I also had a great, extra long lunch with my wife.

The world is already a better place with yet another drug dealer off of the streets, just as I said it would be :)

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 3:52 p.m. (Suggest removal)

was wondering what happened to you CB. Haven't seen ChrisPia all week either.

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 3:58 p.m. (Suggest removal)

she can tell some stories about what goes on in school now. They're funny but sad at the same time. One of my favorites was when one of the kids stole her cell phone, turned it on messing with it and forgot to turn it off. She realized her phone was missing, and of course nobody had it. It rang later in the day (ring tone was Superfreak) and a kid had it in his pants!

Posted by Girleygirl on May 14, 2008 at 4:05 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Where the heck is Doug Hoffman? ChrisPia is around...he was posting about the fire report but the PC has not written anything about Sherriff elections this week so that's why you haven't seen Chris much. I haven't seen NYdec either( I know I am messing up his name & I'm sorry). He usually post some interesting things and like to provide alot of facts with his arguments. Minority South does not post alot but I like to read his post as well.

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 4:07 p.m. (Suggest removal)

mental picture of this kid sitting there with Superfreak playing in his pants..... lol

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 4:09 p.m. (Suggest removal)

have not heard anything from Doug H since ..... can't remember. He was fun.

Posted by Girleygirl on May 14, 2008 at 4:14 p.m. (Suggest removal)

LOL @ Forget. The worst ringtone I've heard was the "hey pick up your phone." while the guy is yelling. Superfreak ringtone..that is so funny!

Posted by forget on May 14, 2008 at 4:28 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Well, this crazy person has to call it a day. Gotta go to ball practice and do all the mom stuff. Later people. Been interesting. Allwoman, please go put your feet up girl. You make me look like a slacker! And Girly, Sex and the City is out at the end of the month, we get to live vicariously through Carrie and friends once again. There's hope for single girls yet!

Posted by Girleygirl on May 14, 2008 at 4:35 p.m. (Suggest removal)

Lol @ Allwoman. He don't understand... he is semi-classified BACKYARD FREAK!!!

Posted by Girleygirl on May 14, 2008 at 4:37 p.m. (Suggest removal)

See you later Forget- Sex and the City is the only movie I want to see this summer. I watched every single one of those episodes on HBO and I miss them. Watching it on TBS does nothing for me.......

Posted by ColdBeer on May 14, 2008 at 4:51 p.m. (Suggest removal)

My wife refuses to put on short shorts and a white tank top and cut the grass while I watch, so I guess I'll be doing some yard work this afternoon.