Mother seeks help locating 31-year-old daughter
AP
Susie Fernandez holds a poster of her missing daughter Maria on Dec. 8 as she and her son Dornell sit at their home in Union. Maria has been missing since September. Suzie
UNION — When Susie Fernandez drives, she tries to glimpse every face in passing cars. In stores, she glances at people in aisles and checkout lines.
She's been doing it ever since her daughter, a nurse and devoted mother of a little boy, vanished in September.
"You try to have faith," said Fernandez, who fears her 31-year-old daughter is dead. "Not knowing what happened is just unbearable. It just consumes your life. You just have this pain in your heart that won't go away."
The sharpest pangs come from two thoughts: Fernandez said she believes she knows who is responsible for her daughter's disappearance, and she doesn't feel anybody outside her family is paying attention.
"At times, it seems like no one really cares except us," Fernandez, 47, said recently as she sat in her living room, surrounded by photos of her four children and grandson, Jamel Good Jr.
Maria Fernandez was last seen Sept. 3. Her boyfriend — the father of her son — initially told police he picked her up from work that day. But authorities say Jamel Good's story is muddled. He hasn't been charged, but Union County sheriff's investigators say Good is a "person of interest" in the disappearance and is not cooperating.
His attorney, Thomas White, disagrees. "He's been cooperative with them. There's no evidence that links him to any kind of crime," White said.
Meanwhile, Fernandez's relatives have been frustrated by a lack of new information.
In their minds are details of how authorities handled another missing persons case in the area. When Susan Smith told police in 1994 that a man stole her car with her two children inside, a large-scale manhunt ensued. Investigators later discovered Smith had killed the boys.
"Where are all those officers now?" said Fernandez's aunt, Toni Davis, 42. "Where is the media?"
While thousands of people go missing each year, cases involving white children or attractive white women typically are the ones that attract media attention. Experts say it takes a passionate advocate to bring attention to a case involving a black person, such as Fernandez.
So her mother has been trying to get people interested. Susie Fernandez has posted fliers asking anyone with information to contact police. She's offering a $1,000 reward for information leading to an arrest.
Fernandez was a popular nurse at the Ellen Sagar Nursing Home and at Spartanburg Regional Medical Center, working two jobs to support her son. She worked long hours, but was at the school bus stop with the boy every morning.
Susie Fernandez said her daughter dated Good for nearly nine years and was living with him in his father's house. But in early September, Maria spent several nights at her mother's home, saying she was leaving Good because he refused to get a job.
On Sept. 3, Good picked up Fernandez at her mother's house because her car was in the shop. He drove her to work and when her shift ended at 2:30 p.m., Good was waiting.
And that's when the story gets murky.
Authorities say Good told police they went together to look at a new house. Later, Good said he dropped Fernandez off at his father's house and left. When he returned hours later, she was gone.
Numerous attempts to contact Good and his father, who authorities say live together, were unsuccessful. No one answered the door at the house on two visits. An answering machine said it wasn't accepting messages. White said he hasn't heard from his client in two months, but that police know everything his client knows.
Good has been convicted of several crimes in the past 10 years: driving with a suspended license, drug possession and writing a fraudulent check. With each case, he received a suspended sentence, probation or a small fine.
Sheriff's investigator Terry Humphries said police don't have enough evidence to charge anyone. He said police have searched several locations and found pieces of Maria's broken cell phone on a roadside.
Humphries said Fernandez would not have willingly left her son. "She was totally dedicated to her child. There was no way she could leave him behind," he said.
Meanwhile, Fernandez's relatives say they are unable to see Jamel because Good has custody and refuses to let them visit.
"There are so many nights I just wonder: Where are you? What happened?" Susie Fernandez said. "I just want to bring my baby back home."


Comments
MRSCVS (anonymous) says...
Oh my,my heart aches for this family.
This is the first of hearing of this beautiful woman missing.
Why have we not been bombarded with images of this missing woman as we have been with others????
Someone love one is missing why must everything be about race???
This world would be such a great place to live if we would just look/LOVE each other as human beings...
Mrs.Fernadez you have my most heart felt prayer that your lovely daughter returns home unhurt and safe...
I will keep you all in constant prayer and keep an alert eye out for your daughter as well.
GOD BLESS
December 24, 2008 at 8:26 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
oldglory (anonymous) says...
This story is so heart-rending and overwhelming; all too common in today's world. Mrs. Fernandez, I don't know how you've maintained your sanity, particularly given the suspicions you must have. At this point, both your daughter and grandson have been removed from your daily life. I'm so sorry for you and your son.
December 24, 2008 at 9:56 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
soulfullatina (anonymous) says...
What a sad story.
It is a shame that race has to be injected into so many of these stories.
However, on the surface it does seem that missing White children and/or seemingly attractive White women garner more media attention than those of color.
It is what it is.
I just hope someday somehow this family finds closure.
December 24, 2008 at 10:14 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
riddiksgirl (anonymous) says...
Good point, why doesn't the media swarm Goods house? Sweat him out, put him on national television. They do seem to highlight the cute ones. What if Caylee Anthony looked like Rocky Dennis? Would we give a rip?
December 24, 2008 at 11:22 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
jca (anonymous) says...
this isnt a child
its a 31 year old adult woman
this is most likely a case of doesnt want to be found since she took off with her son
December 24, 2008 at 11:28 a.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
riddiksgirl (anonymous) says...
Hey, Speed Reader.... she did not take off with her son. Okay, she is not a child. Then how about we see this womans daughter on Good Morning America as much as we do Natalee Holloway? It's very unfair.
December 24, 2008 at 12:46 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
ln1959 (anonymous) says...
jca...go back to first grade and beging reading classes again. She did not leave with your son, you nit wit.
It said that her boy friend picked her up from work, nothing about her son missing also.
So what if she is 31. How old was the run away bride that attracted all of that media attention.
My prayers are with this family. Hope they received information on this miss daughter (child since she does have a mother) soon.
December 24, 2008 at 12:47 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
Lovely_One (anonymous) says...
Um, jca, might I suggest you take a reading comprehension course. She did not "take off with her kid". The boyfriend has hin, hense the reason the grandmother (Maria's mother) and family cannot see him.
And as far as her being an adult, AND......! Look at all of the other cases of adult women that have gone missing that have been in the news. The young woman Brandy that worked at the Alex's on D-Rd. is far from a child. I could name more, but I will leave it at that.
And to the family of this young lady, my prayers are with you. I hope that yuou find closure soon. I believe that not knowing has to be the toughest part of it all.
December 24, 2008 at 1:01 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
chucktownbear (anonymous) says...
It is a shame that race or sexual orinatation plays a roll in justice and fare treatment from the government and public service.
December 24, 2008 at 1:12 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
ms_lady2u (anonymous) says...
Jca(j*ck-*ss)it's still her child- This is the first i heard about this story myself, maybe because "lacy & the rest was more important to them! Mrs.Fernadez i do hope you can find some kind of closure!
December 24, 2008 at 1:29 p.m. ( permalink | suggest removal )
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